Simple Summer Pleasures

Simple Summer Pleasures

When I first got to Massachusetts ten years ago (how did that happen?), I was so enamored with spring and fall because all my life they had been novel, abstract concepts. Growing up in Hawaii, I loved grey, cool, rainy days. I loved any opportunity to wear a sweater (usually because of air conditioning). I loved reading books where characters took long walks with autumn leaves underfoot and ate hot things out of checkered thermoses.

Fall is still a special time—we got married in the fall, we go to Vermont in the fall, and now I even host a small blogger event in the fall—but over the years, I’ve grown to appreciate summer more and more. I used to be confused about why James was reticent about welcoming fall. He’d say, “It’s because winter is right behind it.” And, for some reason, at the time, winter didn’t bother me that much. But now, after the crazy winters we’ve had, I understand.

When I was little, my mom read us the Little House on the Prarie books, in which Laura Ingalls Wilder talks about their long, hard winters. She would probably scoff at my idea of a “hard” winter, which includes heat at the flick of a switch, four wheel drive, and my idea of “hard decisions” like whether to make pot roast or chicken noodle soup (with ingredients simply plucked from shelves and refrigerators). But winters are still very long. So long, in fact, that I’ve begun to worship summer like a true New Englander!

Simple Summer Pleasures

If we learned anything from the French while we were in Paris, it was how to take the time to enjoy simple pleasures. Summer in New England is abundant with these. It’s because of winter that even the mere act of opening the windows seems luxurious.

One of the simple things that I indulge in is podcasts, and my favorite is Happier with Gretchen Rubin (The Happiness Project) and her sister Elizabeth Kraft. I loved their recent “Try This At Home” tip, which suggested that listeners take advantage of the “amenities” of their homes. So often, people buy homes because of their great screened in porches, swimming pools, or man caves, but in the busyness of everyday life, they forget to use them. For us, it’s our balcony.

We’ve long thought of our balcony as a bit of a joke because it’s so narrow. To fit on it, normal-sized people have to sit sideways. Kona takes advantage of our balcony all year long–in the wintertime, when she gets hot, she paws at the door so that she can go out and tromp around in the snow (her favorite!). But the humans of this household almost never go out there. I’m a lounger, so buying a bistro set never really appealed to me. But then it came to me: a hammock!

Our contractor/handyman will come and put in the hooks for us this week (our building is made up of metal and wood studs, so it seemed safer not to DIY this time). In the meantime, Kona and I have been hanging out on the balcony, armed with pillows, library books, and blankets. In fact, as I write this, she’s curled up by my feet, breathing in the cool June morning air and occasionally lifting her head to look at our neighbors walking by below. I’m drinking my coffee. For me, there is so much pleasure to be found in not being rushed.

Simple Summer Pleasures

What simple pleasures are you finding in your summer days?

Love, Joy

P.S. Registration is open for The Hello Sessions! It’s a full day of workshops, where you’ll learn about the steps you need to take to make your small business thrive, how to make great videos (without a ton of equipment or video know-how), and how to grow your social media audience through authenticity. Come learn with us in Portland this October!

Paris, Part Deux

PARIS PART DEUX

On our last day in Paris, we did two things I’d been wanting to do the entire time: shop and buy macarons! It was still drizzling, but the wind had died down and we weren’t soaked through, so we ventured out. Here’s the email I sent my parents that day:

The weather was slightly better today, so we ventured out to the Galerie Vivienne. The verdict is that you both would love it. We went to the Galeries because people have said that they transport you back in time. It’s true. They were built in the Belle Époque era and they feel very classic.

Galerie Vivienne

We had lunch at a cozy cafe. I had a delicious Caesar salad and James had the (don’t freak out!) boeuf tartare.

Cafe at Galerie Vivienne

I found a wonderful boutique called aBis that had lots of Rifle Paper Co. stuff. I bought a pretty bracelet, a little purse for Jolie, and a scarf for Rebecca’s birthday. 

Here’s my bracelet:

Bracelet from aBis

Afterward, we went to Laduree to get Macarons as omiyage. We chose the St. Germain store because we were told it’s less busy than the one on the Champs Elysees. There was only one customer in front of us! I bought a TON of Macarons to take to work, only to come home and find out that they don’t last very long and may fall apart on our journey. So fingers crossed that they make it!

Laduree St. Germain

Laudree Macarons
We decided to have dinner at Nagoya again because tonight I was well enough to enjoy it. The oyako don was deeeelish! James had udon–also delish. 

Nagoya

On the way back to our flat, I took a picture of the charming flower shop in our neighborhood. 

Flower Shop in Montparnasse

Au revoir, Paris!

Paris!

Paris

We recently got back from Paris, where we arrived just in time for historic rain and, yes, flooding! We have impeccable timing. While we didn’t get to see everything we had hoped to see, what we did see was exactly as charming and as dreamy as we had hoped for. 

One of the things that made our stay so special was the lovely Airbnb apartment we rented in Montparnasse. We highly recommend it for anyone traveling to Paris, as it’s centrally located, near a metro station, within walking distance of a whole bunch of great restaurants, and completely comfortable. I chose it because it has a tiny rose garden. The owner of the apartment could not have been nicer. We arrived to fresh croissants and baguettes, which we promptly devoured with a bit of raw honey.

Airbnb in Montparnasse

I wrote my parents an email on our first and only sunny day there, which I’ll include here:

We are having fun in Paris! Last night, we went to a restaurant called Spring. My friend Kim just came to Paris a few months ago and she recommended it. She told me to say hi to her friend Jonathan who is a sommelier. He was delighted and he said that he loves Kim even though she doesn’t drink wine. They all took a picture with me to send to Kim:

Spring Paris

Afterward, we walked through the courtyard of the Louvre. 

Louvre Louis

Today, we had lunch at a little cafe called Madame. It was delicious! The waitress’ dog was there, which I thought was very sweet because he was so well behaved. But then I took this picture of him and ten seconds later he peed on that wall!

Cafe Madame

We still had coffee before leaving:

Cafe Madame Coffee

Then, we tried to go to the Luxembourg Gardens but just when we got there a thunderstorm rolled in! So we ducked into the Musee du Luxembourg, where we saw lots of Monets and Degas’ and other paintings. My favorite things were these birds in the gift shop:

Luxembourg Museum

Then, we decided to walk to a store I read about called Merci. Halfway there, we ran into a little stationery store where I found a card that reminded me of Auntie Shirley. I promptly forgot it was in my hand and walked off with it. When I returned to pay for it (flustered), the shop owner gave me a discount for “being so kind.”

Stationery Shop Paris

By the time we got to Merci and I took this photo outside, they were closing! They were very rude about it, in fact. But at least I got a good picture out of it:

Merci Paris

And while we were waiting for our Uber, this dog and his owner walked up to a bakery and the dog just waited outside while the owner went in for his bread. He didn’t move at all! We’ve seen a lot of very well-behaved dogs off leash here. I don’t know how they do it, but I wish they’d teach Kona.

Good Dogs in Paris

We just got back from a delicious hole-in-the-wall Chinese place where they make their own noodles. We saw the guy pulling them. We ate them too quickly to get a photo.

And now we’re back in our cute apartment to go to bed! I had to take a shower because my feet were black from all the walking we did today. I think we walked about eight miles in total, so at least we’re burning off some of these calories.

P.S. We found a flower shop that had more peonies together than I’ve ever seen IN MY LIFE. And they were ALL beautiful!!!!!

 
Peonies in Paris 

More Parisian adventures to come!

Love, Joy

February 2016

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Life has been good to us lately, not the least of which has to do with the fact that winter has been kind this year. So far. Knock on wood. (There isn’t enough wood in the world to knock on.)

There is something grounding about the fullness of my days, with these new people I’m learning about, who are taking the time to learn about me. They’re talented and interested and in the hours outside of work, they pursue the things that bring them to their own level of rock stardom.

While I don’t have the time to craft posts or photograph recipes these days, I’ve been wanting to do a better job of recording what’s happening in my life, if only for the purpose of looking back and having a snapshot of what these swiftly passing days have held.

What I’m listening to: The Amos Lee channel on Pandora. Emily and Chad were playing it at dinner one night and I remembered how much I love Amos Lee. How warm a space feels when his music playing. Our dear southern friends are moving back to South Carolina this weekend and we will miss them more than words can express.

And also, all the podcasts! I am loving the Happiness podcast and trying so hard to listen to Serial, but my mind wanders. I just can’t get invested. Could it be that the Serial team is also not that invested? Today, they did a short episode about the Adnan Syed trial (season one’s topic) and they were so wrapped up in it, they were nearly breathless. There is none of that this season. Would that be like lightning striking twice? Perhaps too much to expect.

What I’m reading: Everything I Never Told You. Which is one of those books about how life carries you, and changes happen, and you just can’t stop them. And how you must be absolutely, truly, resolutely yourself. I also read Shonda Rhimes’ Year of Yes and Drew Barrymore’s Wildflower, both of which made me feel very I am woman; hear me roar. 

What I’m wearing: I fell hard for these Cole Haan d’Orsay pumps. They’re so ladylike–and comfortable! I want to wear them ALL THE TIME.

What we’re watching: We just binge watched Transparent and Making of a Murderer. In the middle of the two seasons of Transparent, James turned to me and said, with big saucer eyes, “TRANS. PARENT!” And now we have something new to laugh about. (He is still the smartest person I know.)

What I’m struggling with: Kona. Specifically, Kona eating other dogs’ poop and then waking us up in the dead of night with diarrhea. We have had to stop taking her to daycare. Then she did it on a walk the other night, when we were taking care of Emily and Chad’s dog, Oliver. I’m exhausted. I have no idea how people with actual babies do it.

What’s making my heart happy: Going home. To both homes: Portland and Honolulu.

Love,

Joy

 

 

Yes, we’re doing it all over again!

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Why, hello there! Yes, it’s been a very long time. Sorry about that. The Hello Sessions was absolutely incredible–it surpassed all of our expectations, thanks largely to the people who helped us put it together and the people who showed up. We couldn’t have asked for a better group of people. In fact, they were so awesome that we immediately dove back into planning mode and have secured a date for our 2016 conference.

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If you want to read more about the conference, you can read the blog post I wrote immediately afterward. Or you can check out one of these great posts:

“This particular group of creatives, entrepreneurs, writers, and artists all had something in common: communityconnection, and {thinking of a ‘c’ word because I am all about the alliteration} COMMITMENT. Everyone there was open, ready to share their story, ready to listen to yours, and ready to shake it all up.”  – Jayme, Holly and Flora (There’s also a fabulous cocktail recipe in this post)

 

“A hello is all it takes. Really, that’s it. Through our day of activities, everyone was gracious and open to meeting each other, even the shy ones.” – Maggie, Eat Boutique (Loads of amazing photos from our post-conference wine pairing dinner)

 

“I felt an incredible sense of community during The Hello Sessions conference on Friday, but also throughout the city. People were very friendly, and businesses seemed to be very collaborative.” – Sami Jo, Poor and Pretty

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We’re about 98% certain of the location of our event and we’ll be working with brands on sponsorships in the next few months, but if you want first dibs on tickets definitely sign up for our newsletter! Melissa and I decided that 100 attendees was just about perfect, so we’re keeping it the same size in 2016.

Between my full-time job (and my 12+ hour/week commute), planning for The Hello Sessions, and life, I’m afraid Frock Files will remain somewhat neglected. But if you want to keep hearing from me, follow us on The Hello Sessions’ blog, where I’ll be writing just about every week, and on our Instagram feed, where I’m making every effort to post daily.

Big hugs,

Joy

The Hello Sessions photos taken by Linnea Paulina | Love Where You Live photos by Kelly Searle

 

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